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Copyright © 1982-2007 Growth Climate
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Two couples were married in 1990. Today they both have children in their teenage years. They live in nice homes, drive nice cars, and enjoy their work. At first glance they both appear to have the perfect life. The only difference is what is happening inside their homes.
One couple has been emotionally distant for years. They live solo lives. Both are disappointed and neither knows how to change their situation. Their arguments are over simple things, but they become huge problems… and they are considering a divorce. The other couple seems to enjoy almost everything they do together… they talk about everything, they share all their feelings, and they communicate value to one another. They have the kind of relationship most people sing about, read about, and dream about. They enjoy their yearly vacations and love spending time together -- whether that is watching their children's school activities or going on regular dates. The love they have for each other is obvious. 
I suppose on their wedding day if we could have seen into the eyes of both couples we would have seen "that look" (you know what I am talking about -- the longing, loving, compassionate, caring "look")…The endless smiles…The joyful, tear-filled eyes. Have you wondered, like I have, what happens to those feelings and "that look?" Where does it go? Surprisingly, the answer really is not that complicated… …Yet when dealing with the complexities of life…somehow we lose focus on the things that should really matter. This is especially true with all of the challenges that seem to crop up in relationships. After all, raising children, paying bills, working, cleaning the house and yard, and meeting each other's needs are not easy. To top it off, we don't always communicate the same way, nor have the same needs. So -- why do some people make it and others don't? Those who succeed have a secret. What is that secret? They have KNOWLEDGE. It's that easy. Think about it. We spend hours and hours in classrooms learning about English, math, and science… How much time do we spend learning about healthy relationships? We see the hurt and pain in our own families growing up and expect that somehow we will automatically know how to make our relationships different. Unfortunately -- and obviously, now that you have thought about it -- it seldom works out that way. The secret is those with healthy relationships have paid the price to learn the right skills, and gain knowledge …and not only do they have knowledge…they have the right knowledge. But even that is not enough! They learn how to apply the knowledge they have to create closeness -intimacy-not just a physical intimacy, but a closeness, a sharing, an intimacy in every aspect of their lives. It is this intimacy you see when you observe people in successful relationships. It is this intimacy that can turn your relationship around and give you the relationship of your dreams. Is it possible that relationships can be made easy? 
The reason I am writing this letter is to invite you to take a test. No, no. Don't get me wrong…you won't be graded. You see, we have studied what makes relationships work and what makes relationships fail. We know which knowledge can make the kind of differences in relationships that we described above. The RELATIONSHIP INTIMACY TEST is carefully constructed to ask you the right questions so we can provide you with this KNOWLEDGE so that your relationship can reach its INTIMACY POTENTIAL. 
Simply answering the questions alone will help you identify the specific issues that need to be addressed and changed in your relationship… But we don't leave it at that. After you carefully respond to each question on this short test, we will respond to you! We provide you with in-depth feedback for each of your responses. The questions on this test are the same questions we would ask you if you were sitting in our therapy office. That's right! You'll be taught as if you were in our office, except you can answer these questions and receive our professional feedback in the comfort of your own home -- for a fraction of the cost! You will learn about SIX different types of intimacy…Yes, there is much more to intimacy than the physical relationship-but what are the others types of intimacy? Take our test and you will learn not only what these types of intimacy include, but also how to develop them in your own relationship. We teach you so that you can readily apply these types of intimacy and turn your relationship into a success. With this vital information, you will no longer have to guess why you are struggling in your relationship. We provide the questions and the answers…the real question is -- do you want the KNOWLEDGE so you can succeed? 
We provide solutions. Included in every answer on this test is a section that we call Ideas for Improvement. We realize that even good relationships can be better. Even more importantly, if you are really struggling in your relationship and feel ready to "throw it away," we spend extra time providing insights and suggestions and knowledge to help you and your partner succeed. We offer you new ideas and reminders (more knowledge) so that you can reach your INTIMACY POTENTIAL. You will find that each answer is written to help YOU, in your unique situation, achieve intimacy in new and better ways. As an example, sexual intimacy is important for many people. A few years ago Dr. David Schnarch said the following about sexual intimacy, "Most people never come close to their sexual potential and those who do generally do not accomplish this until the fifth or sixth decade of life." Who wants to wait until they have no energy to achieve intimacy in their relationship?...Certainly not me. 
Put us to the test. Over the past 5 years, more than 100,000 people have taken our relationship tests. Many of them have written to thank us for the new and exciting KNOWLEDGE they have received. The RELATIONSHIP INTIMACY TEST is our best test yet. We have combined our resources and experiences to bring you this most powerful life changing information. What would you pay for this kind of knowledge? If you went to a professional therapist you would pay $80 to $100 an hour-for just one hour of therapy. If your counselor asked you each of the questions found on the RELATIONSHIP INTIMACY TEST, it would take many sessions to cover all of this valuable information. You would be looking at a price tag of $800-$1000. Take our test today and you pay only $69.95 You can get started now. Simply click on the RELATIONSHIP INTIMACY TEST button below and fill out the information requested. You will be asked to create an account with your email and password (don't worry -- we protect your email with our secure servers). Creating an account does two things: First, if at anytime during the test you need to take a break, our system will automatically save your answers and you can come back to them at any time by logging in. Second, with your purchase, you can come back to your "My Account" area and read or print your results any time for the rest of your life. The test will take you about 20 minutes. Once you have completed the test, you are a click away from your personalized results. Just think of it -- you are 20 minutes from obtaining the KNOWLEDGE that could change your relationship forever. We are so confident that this new information will help you and your relationship we offer a money back guarantee if you are not completely satisfied.
We wish we could guarantee that your relationship will succeed… that will depend upon you and your partner applying the knowledge we will give to you, but we WILL GUARANTEE that you will have the knowledge and information needed so that you can reach your INTIMACY POTENTIAL. But that's not all! In addition, as a member of our site, you will be given the opportunity to receive our Relationship Intimacy Newsletter absolutely free! This will keep you up-to-date on our freshest ideas and current thoughts on improving intimacy in your relationship. Our commitment to you is simple: We commit to provide you with as much KNOWLEDGE as possible so that you can reach your INTIMACY POTENTIAL. Regarding the two couples mentioned in the beginning of this letter: They both wanted intimacy, they both wanted successful, nurturing marriages. The difference? One sought KNOWLEDGE and the other eventually gave up. We are waiting to help you. 
Dr. Kevin B. Skinner, LMFT Vice President GrowthClimate  P.S. I have been very antsy to have this new test launched. I believe it is the most helpful product I have ever created. My brain has been buzzing with excitement to get out this new knowledge and information. Just ask my co-workers how much I have been talking about intimacy in relationships! So…in all of my excitement and in an effort to make sure that you are given every chance possible to succeed in your relationship, I am going to include 3 FREE Bonus Gifts: Bonus Gift #1: Recently, I had the opportunity to teach a few individuals who are in our certification training program at GrowthClimate. I was asked to speak on intimacy in relationships. After the presentation, I was asked if I had the information written down or on a CD because it was so powerful they wanted to share it with others. Realizing the potential impact this knowledge could have on your relationship, I went into the studio to record that presentation, "True Intimacy." This audio CD is FREE to you and can be downloaded with your purchase today. (Value $24.95) Bonus Gift #2: Many of you may wonder how to get your spouse involved in changing your relationship. If this is your desire, you can invite your spouse to listen to my most popular audio download "Five Sure-Fire Ways to Strengthen Your Relationships." With your purchase today, this valuable audio download will be yours for FREE. If you are like many of my clients, you will want to listen to this audio download over and over again. (Value $24.95) Bonus Gift #3: I have recently had a rash of situations where clients and individuals are struggling with various addictions in their relationships. In an effort to provide you with as much information as possible to help your relationship, I am going to include my special report, "Addiction and Intimacy." If addictive behaviors are hurting your relationship, this is a must-read. In fact, I recommend all couples read this article. This article cannot be found anywhere else. However, today it is FREE with your purchase. (Value $19.95) The combined value of these Bonus Gifts: $69.85. That means you're paying just 10 cents for the Relationship Intimacy Test. Include the $20 off and …well let's just say you are getting a great deal. You pay only $49.95. To download your FREE CD's, special report, and take the RELATIONSHIP INTIMACY TEST just click below now: |
